Hi guys.
I am sorry that I am starting another thread about Fi and Fe. It's an interesting dichotomy for me, and I have a hard time differentiating the two within me.
So here we go!
I am terrible with the academic descriptions of Fi and Fe. I "feel" like I do best whenever I relate it to something sort of general, like stepping on toes. xDD
So let's say I have a group of friends that I just met a few days ago. I don't know too much about them, but I realize that they like to physically harm each other. I notice them poke and punch each other, and I don't think much of it until they start stepping on my toes. At first I am shocked because normal people don't step on other people's toes. Still, I think about what that groups means, and realize these people uphold values/images that I think are acceptable, and I really want to be a part of the group and become one with them. So I continue to let them step on my toes because it maintains the harmony within the group.
Now, let's say someone new comes along. I start chatting with her to try and integrate her into the group by making her feel comfortable around me. As soon as that happens and she starts talking to my friends, I start to punch her and kick her, but I realize that she doesn't like it. She says "it's not good to do that ". I'll get confused as I try to find out why she won't share out customs. I start to feel strange whenever she is in the group because I can't integrate to different value systems.
In this example, I believe that I am the Fe user (what I think I am naturally, but ...maybe not). I write this because this is similar to how I act in everyday situations with people. Now, I know I am supposed to write an example for Fi doms, but I am not sure if I know how to. I really don't understand how Fi works even though it is highly likely that I lead with it.
Still, given this example of how I would act in social situations, do you see this as the dynamic of an Fe or Fi dom/aux? I ask because I do this thing where I can value and individual on their own, but as soon as I think about the social dynamic I belong to I find it hard to integrate the individual and the group together and I have to change some "definitions" or find some other meaning in order to do to feel harmonic in the outside world (where the humans are involved xD)
Thanks for helping ^_^ (and sorry for grammatical/spelling/syntax mistakes!)
I am sorry that I am starting another thread about Fi and Fe. It's an interesting dichotomy for me, and I have a hard time differentiating the two within me.
So here we go!
I am terrible with the academic descriptions of Fi and Fe. I "feel" like I do best whenever I relate it to something sort of general, like stepping on toes. xDD
So let's say I have a group of friends that I just met a few days ago. I don't know too much about them, but I realize that they like to physically harm each other. I notice them poke and punch each other, and I don't think much of it until they start stepping on my toes. At first I am shocked because normal people don't step on other people's toes. Still, I think about what that groups means, and realize these people uphold values/images that I think are acceptable, and I really want to be a part of the group and become one with them. So I continue to let them step on my toes because it maintains the harmony within the group.
Now, let's say someone new comes along. I start chatting with her to try and integrate her into the group by making her feel comfortable around me. As soon as that happens and she starts talking to my friends, I start to punch her and kick her, but I realize that she doesn't like it. She says "it's not good to do that ". I'll get confused as I try to find out why she won't share out customs. I start to feel strange whenever she is in the group because I can't integrate to different value systems.
In this example, I believe that I am the Fe user (what I think I am naturally, but ...maybe not). I write this because this is similar to how I act in everyday situations with people. Now, I know I am supposed to write an example for Fi doms, but I am not sure if I know how to. I really don't understand how Fi works even though it is highly likely that I lead with it.
Still, given this example of how I would act in social situations, do you see this as the dynamic of an Fe or Fi dom/aux? I ask because I do this thing where I can value and individual on their own, but as soon as I think about the social dynamic I belong to I find it hard to integrate the individual and the group together and I have to change some "definitions" or find some other meaning in order to do to feel harmonic in the outside world (where the humans are involved xD)
Thanks for helping ^_^ (and sorry for grammatical/spelling/syntax mistakes!)