zethry

So I have a question and thought I'd make a thread for it.

Today, I read that one of the differences between ENFPs and INFPs is when they retreat into fantasy worlds. This thread (I forget where I found it) said that ENFPs are "more likely to venture into their fantasy worlds simply because they enjoy it, unlike INFP's who are more likely to feel like they must do so to escape reality or like they have no choice in the matter."
I usually test ENFP and I identify with almost everything ENFPs say in the threads/posts, but I DEFINTELY go to my fantasy world to escape rather than simply because I enjoy it. (I mean, I DO enjoy it, but I also do it to escape, especially when I'm having a rough time and avoding things I need to do, but don't want to do). Does this make sense? So am I an ENFP who just needs the fantasy world more or am I an INFP?

I'm very outgoing, though I hate going places by myself (especially if I've never been and ESPECIALLY if I am not going to know anybody there). I make friends easily, but when I'm feeling anxious I feel like I need to hang back. I'm really loud and tend to be the center of attention, but I don't like the spot light if I'm feeling anxious or unsure or undeserving about the reason I'm IN the spotlight. I love reading and my comfort zone (though I also like adventure and I hate routine--love new things and hate being bored). All these are I traits rather than E, are they not?


Anyway, that's off topic.
My question is, how do you start a thread here on personality cafe? I can't find how to do it, so anyone explaing it to me would be GREAT! I want to do a thread that's something like this: ENFP--when and why do you venture into your fantasy worlds?

Thanks!
--Cait