A touch of darkness and bleakness... Originally Posted by Yardiff Bey A touch of dark wisdom for you:
* don't rush too fast into a relationship, take a couple of years to enjoy a slow process
* always, always, always stay alert for the little things that indicate a lack of compassion, empathy, and sympathy
* don't look for a good wife/husband, look for someone who would make a good mother/father - everything else then falls into line
* don't get married unless you seriously are wanting to have children - any other reason is a pointless risk
I agree to not rush into marriage, but sometimes a relationship takes on a life of it's own and goes fast because you are both falling fast.
I agree to not ignore little signs of things that don't feel right. They will come back later!
Good point about children .... hmmm- something to think on.
You are dark and wise!
Thank you for the comment Laguna, though I sometimes doubt the wisdom. All I can go by is what makes sense and works for me. This is why I called it dark wisdom.
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I have a few quibbles with your fourth point, but otherwise: