Apologies - would it kill to apologize?
by, 03-18-2017 at 11:35 AM (56 Views)
Only one ex has ever truly apologized to me for what he did. The others just run away or replaced me when things get tough or blamed me. I keep wondering when my other exes/ex-flings will ever apologize. They just don't seem to care what they did and even had the audacity to blame me when all I ever was, was nice to them in person. I don't understand people. The funny thing is, they wouldn't like it if someone did to them what they're doing to me, but when they do it to others they think they don't need to apologize.
There's an old quote, "People try to make you out to be the bad guy so they feel less guilty for what they did." I think this is what's going on here. I don't know.
My college boy wasn't a bad guy, but I just wish he would tell me his feelings what he's really feeling instead of running away like the college boy he is. I thought he wanted to talk to an older woman because he wanted to learn. Why talk to me at all if he just wants to act his age? I don't get.