INFPishnesss

Damn, random ladyperson sitting on a bench talking on your cell phone facing me, you have beautiful blue eyes, sparkly sapphire soul-gems. I'm not usually into blondes, but your hair is all long and flowing and it falls just the way it should, catches the light just right and everything. Your sun-soaked skin is calling out to me. You look so stressed out, stranger... I so badly want to offer to help you relax.

I heard you say it on the phone, stranger, that you're an athlete - you do ...

My (INxJ) exes both resented me even while we were together for taking a mature, compassionate approach to disagreements - recognizing my faults, apologizing, and then stating calmly how I feel and why and what can be done to end the conflict.

They resented that even after we had broken up, I would send little messages saying things like, "I hope all is well with you :) " and "Best wishes!" They thought I was being "fake" or something this whole time... ...