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i think since joining here and since coming a bit more out of my shell at home and stuff i have begun to grow more comfortable with expressing my opinions. like for example on this forum when i first joined there is a marked difference since then until now where i have grown more comfortable with expressing what i think and so on. and i have even argued with someone and i have been okay with it. which is ridiculous because i think a couple of months ago i couldn't have done that at all.
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i was originally going to post this in reply to a thread but then i realized i had spiraled down into a random tangent about j`kaan, the martial art i teach, so i decided to just make a blog entry about it.

i am an example of a more controlling isfj. i like things to be done a specific way, the right way. i'm open to change obviously but until it is proven otherwise, my methods are always the best methods. i know it's irrational but that's just the kind of person i am.
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i have noticed that while my friends are a "little" interested in the mbti thing, no one actually cares about it as much as i do.

my friend brought up a really good point yesterday while i was eavesdropping on him talking to my wife (not actually as rude as you would think within our relationship, we really have no secrets from eachother. while we are both kind of private we aren't with eachother): because i have no defined standard by which to judge people, nor myself, ...