I am religious/spiritual and even I am like "wtf?!" on the church date thing for INFPs. And "helper"? What a weird title for an INFP. Must be a heavy e9 view (?). I will take the "healer" tag over that.
The INFJ description is more relatable to me. Debating for a date? Heck yeah! Even the INTP description might suit me except I don't like games much.
Would ESTJs really be into independent films and festivals for dates? Like, where are these ESTJs? Of the SJs, they sound the most appealing in these descriptions. Of the NTs, the INTPs are most appealing. Of the SPs, ESFPs are most appealing to me. Of the NFs, ENFPs sound most attractive, but INFJs are most relatable here (followed by INFPs, whose description is actually quite similar if you remove the church bit).