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This is a discussion on Factors for Relationship Compatibility Using the Enneagram within the Articles forums, part of the Announcements category; Interesting! Thanks for posting this. I also feel like my "lovemap" (and I'm using that term loosely because I am ...

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    Interesting! Thanks for posting this.

    I also feel like my "lovemap" (and I'm using that term loosely because I am pretty ignorant about enneagram) is mostly unconscious--that there have been certain qualities I just assumed were there (in a partner). These qualities were only discovered in events where I felt very betrayed or (IDK--endangered, misunderstood), as being "non-negotiable" requirements for love.



    This thread makes me want to know my enneagram and instinctual variant.
    Last edited by WickerDeer; 07-11-2013 at 07:43 PM.
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  2. #22

    Quote Originally Posted by MBTI Enthusiast View Post
    Yep, in two different Wagele books. I've found the table to be accurate from my research on ISTJ types on this site, too.
    Ha! Knew it! . Thanks again - this is really insightful... Maybe one day I'll know as much about the system as you do, and then >:D *rubs hands together*

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    You have used your Enneagram result to come up with you so call "Love Map"? Where can I read more about that?

    I'm brand new to the forum and just did the the test to discover being a 7w6 and I'm really eager to learn more about it.

    Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jully_Beans View Post
    You have used your Enneagram result to come up with you so call "Love Map"? Where can I read more about that?

    I'm brand new to the forum and just did the the test to discover being a 7w6 and I'm really eager to learn more about it.

    Thanks!
    No, your lovemap is independent of enneagram type. A combination of traits that your father exhibits and life experiences form it, and it's impossible to know every item on it because much of it is subconscious.

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    I like the thread, I think I will look into the book "Sex, Love and Your Personality: The Nine Faces of Intimacy" by Judith Searle
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    I think it's beautiful how we connect as humans. Quite interesting to read about these elements which we try to find out about, even intentionally. I believe love is influenced by our most personal and deep feelings, thoughts, beliefs, etc... and this is why it's hard to find a true match, because it takes time to trust someone with something so vulnerable and true to one.

    Thank you for sharing!
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    "Sex, Love and Your Personality: The Nine Faces of Intimacy" by Judith Searle Seems interesting. I'm looking at the preview of the book. Do you know if you can download a torrent of the book?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tega1 View Post
    "Sex, Love and Your Personality: The Nine Faces of Intimacy" by Judith Searle Seems interesting. I'm looking at the preview of the book. Do you know if you can download a torrent of the book?
    Not sure. I own the hard copy and Kindle preview. :)
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    Quote Originally Posted by MBTI Enthusiast View Post
    Not sure. I own the hard copy and Kindle preview. :)
    Oh ok I saw a preview on amazon.com of the book. Didn't know enneagram was so popular. Instinct variant is interesting. I'm trying to figure out my instinct variant. I think I'm SX/SP/SO. My enneagram type is probably type 9 or 6. But I'm still sometimes unsure. Probably I am a nine. Nines normally feel they other types. I'm not as reactive as a six. But I do have trust issues with people.
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    Have to retake this enneagram test.


     
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