Wow, this is right on the button for myself (ENFP) and my husband (INTJ).
I'm learning that all the ways I've developed to handle Mr. INTJ when stressed out are completely accurate here and it's given me some better insight as to why my strategies work. Lol, I never really understood why I would have to handle things a certain way, I just learned what NOT to do :P .
This should help give me some more tools to work with.
Also great to understand why I need to just have a sympathetic ear instead of having my problems logically solved away. The logic, while intellectually helpful, never really dispersed the stress for me.