Hmm, since I never had much contact to my mum I'll go with my mum and my maternal grandparents, since I grew up there when she was at work. My grandma is definitely acts of service while my mum and my grandpa both are acts of service as well as words of affirmation. I on the other hand scored pretty different on a test I took and it is kinda right. Gifts and service mean almost nothing to me. Quality time and affirmation are important but mostly I'm a physical touch person, so nope...I didn't learn that from my family...obviously.