Not that this really needs advisement, but it is time to finalise this relationship. Due to the implications of what is abundantly clear to be my callous nature, I wish to make this break up as amicable as possible.
It has become clear that the difference in our intellects has begun to corrode the foundations of our relationship. One obvious example is when I posited a philosophical question to her recently, and my responose became one along the lines of "Life in your head must be really busy [my name], your really into the world and how it works." - null response. This drove me to a realization. My work had kept me founded in thought and allowed me to sympathize with humans in need. I believe myself to be at a loss here.
How can this split be achieved with minimal offense on her part and minimal reassessment on mine?
She is a rather pronounced anarchist, and as it goes, she performs well on signifying relationships. Yet is inclined towards a strong attachment complex (abandonment issues) although I may apply psychological means to the break-up; I find it to be counter to apply ethics to a) someone who is not a client, b) someone whom I have a personal relationship with and c) someone who may be inclined to become unstable as a result of existent upsets in her mental state.