My fiancé is very reserved and shy and lots of people misinterpret his personality as cold, and oh it drives me nuts anyone who gets to know him well knows he is one of the most compassionate kind and truly just good people you will ever know, it is a shame how many people just discard others and never really try to get to know them. The things that man does for me, and how many times he has been my rock in a storm are simply amazing, he is above all else my best friend in life. Some of my freinds and family opposed our engagment at first and he heard about it, and now he has it stuck in his head that our being married is a bad thing, like what I am some kind of idiotic little girl who can not make decisions for myself, oh that burns my biscuits!!!
As for not returning contact with my friend, well I did that for about 8 or 9 months then we had a mutual friend have a really bad incident (her toddler almost drowned) and he and I kind of ended up communicating again to try to help and support her, the first time I saw him or spoke to him was when we went to visit with her, but now he continues to call me, and I will once in a while return contact but not often, I was hoping that we could go back to being friends, but he still will not let it drop. He says he has never been married beucase he loves me, that there has never been and never will be another woman for him and so on and so on it kind of freaks me out a little as I know him rather well and this is so out of character for him, I wonder if he is getting a few fries short of a happy meal anymore, and is just afraid of being alone.