Specifically I mean in the case of interviews. I almost posted this in Education & Career Talk but I'm not really talking about the interview process or what to say/what questions to anticipate, I'm specifically asking for advice on how to be less intense. I have this thing where once I get to know someone it's really easy for me to make conversation and chat with them about anything, but in the beginning I have a hard time knowing exactly how to respond and I think I come across as intense or bitchy. My face gets tight and won't relax and I have a hard time smiling. I think I definitely come across as extremely guarded or anxious. What are some tips for relaxing and seeming more normal? Lol.